steps to be a good lover

Step1
Make sure your lover is a keeper.
Pleasing your mate is always challenging. We all need advice here and there and we can give advice also. The most important part of being the best lover is loving your lover make sure this is someone you want to knock their socks off. Make sure he is a keeper

Step2
Confidence
Another factor which is just as important as the first step is to love yourself. Know who you are. Know you are sexy. Confidence drives men wild. Men like for us to be like pretty kitten, but it you cross her she will scratch.

Step3
Visual
Men are mostly visual they can watch a flick and let go on themselves. So enjoying your own body is a plus. Play with yourself while having intercourse. Enjoy yourself just as much as he does it will drive him wild.

Step4
Communication
Make sure you keep communication open. Let your mate know when you are enjoying. Ask your mate do you like this, do you like that. Get to know your mate don't waste your time being uncomfortable. Doing things he doesn't enjoy that you think he does. Always make it a learning experience using techniques later and added new ones.